What To Do if You've Been Given the Power of Attorney Over a Loved One

Eugene Strupinsky • February 11, 2026

Being granted power of attorney (POA) over a loved one is both an honor and a significant responsibility. This legal arrangement requires you to act in your loved one's best interests, particularly during times of incapacity. If you are in this role, it is important to understand not just the basics of POA, but also how you can use your authority effectively, especially when it comes to managing finances and property in New York. From complying with state statutes to ensuring proper financial management, every step you take should be aligned with your loved one's wishes and New York law.

What is Power of Attorney and What are Your Duties?

A power of attorney is a legal document that authorizes you, the agent, to act on behalf of the principal, or your loved one. This can cover a range of actions, such as managing real estate, handling financial accounts, or making healthcare decisions. In New York, a POA can be durable, meaning it remains in effect if your loved one becomes incapable, or nondurable, meaning it lapses in such cases.


As an agent, you are required to:

  • Act honestly, with care, and in your loved one's best interest
  • Maintain thorough records of all actions and transactions
  • Avoid conflicts of interest or personal gain from the arrangement
  • Follow any instructions given in the POA document


Key First Steps After Accepting Power of Attorney

After being named as POA, your first actions should involve:

  • Reading the POA document in detail to determine the extent and limits of your authority
  • Notifying financial institutions and other relevant parties of your new role
  • Keeping all important documents secure, such as the original POA, identification, and any court filings
  • Consulting with a reputable law firm for tailored guidance to ensure compliance with New York State law

Transparency is crucial. In Brooklyn and throughout New York City, mismanagement or failure to follow the rules can result in legal consequences.


Managing Assets, Accounts, and Real Estate

If your loved one owns property or has substantial assets, you might need to make decisions about real estate or investments. For those handling commercial or residential properties, understanding the full scope of your powers is essential. For example, to sell, rent, or transfer real estate, New York law often requires that the POA document specifically grants such authority. You may need to coordinate with real estate professionals and accountants, and you may also need to address seasonal challenges unique to New York, like winter property maintenance or compliance with local housing codes.


Tax Strategies and Financial Transactions: 1031 Exchange Overview

If your power of attorney involves managing real estate investments, you might encounter opportunities for a 1031 exchange. This is a legal process allowing property owners to defer capital gains taxes when swapping one investment property for another. It is particularly beneficial for commercial investors in areas like Brooklyn, where property values and investment opportunities shift seasonally.


A 1031 exchange offers the following tax advantages:

  • Defers capital gains taxes, preserving more capital for reinvestment
  • Allows for portfolio growth without immediate tax burden
  • Helps with estate and succession planning

Eligibility for a 1031 exchange requires that both properties be held for investment or business purposes and be "like-kind." The timeline is strict: after selling the first property, you have 45 days to identify potential replacements and 180 days to complete the transaction. Be sure to keep accurate records and consult with qualified professionals to help navigate these legal and tax issues.


When to Consult Legal Professionals in Your Role as POA

Given the complexity of laws and responsibilities in New York, being proactive about seeking legal counsel is always in your loved one's best interest. Whether you are unsure about your powers, need help with property transactions, or face a dispute, trust and estate administration or elder law attorneys can provide solutions tailored to your specific circumstances. This is especially important in a highly regulated, diverse city like New York.




Contact Khalifeh & Strupinsky, P.C. for Power of Attorney Guidance in Brooklyn and New York, NY

If you have been granted power of attorney and need reliable legal advice, Khalifeh & Strupinsky, P.C. is here to help. Our team is well-versed in New York State's complex POA regulations, offering comprehensive services in estate planning and related legal matters. To schedule a confidential consultation, call us at 917-717-5007 or fill out the secure online form. Let us help you navigate your new role with confidence and clarity.




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